Using The Internet to Meet Girls by Joseph Matthews
With it's steady growth & userbase it's no wonder why the internet is one of the easiest & fastest ways to meet beautiful women.
In the past there was a lot of stigma surrounding dating on the internet. No longer. It's perfectly acceptable to seek out dates on the web.
The only problem is. . . they're not usually all that beautiful are they
Who hasn't gone to sites like Match. com & eHarmony gotten in touch with a girl who had a great picture in their profile only to meet up with them & find out that picture was from 5 years & 100 pounds ago
Meeting women on the internet isn't hard. But knowing how to meet women on the internet the RIGHT way is skill few men have learned to master.
If you're not worried about the quality of the women you meet then just send out enough emails & you'll get a number of women ranging from hideously ugly to butt nut crazy ready & willing to date you.
But if you want to get a QUALITY girl someone who's mentally stable attractive & most of all fun then here are some tips you need to know about how to meet women on the internet.
TIP 1 Be Extremely Specific About The Type Of Woman You Want to Meet.
Very few guys ever write in their profile what it they are really looking for. They either ignore this completely or keep it too general.
Here's the thing though if you are extremely clear & specific about the type of girl you're looking to meet it will actually GET those types of women to respond to you
And contrary to popular believe it won't scare off too many girls who don't fit the profile of the woman you want either.
Most women respect a guy who knows what he's looking for & they'll contact you anyway hoping they can "broaden your horizons. "
It's a very powerful thing to be specific with what you're looking for in a girl. Don't be afraid to go into detail about how you want your girl to look & act.
TIP 2 Explain What You're NOT Looking For.
Telling people in your profile what you're not looking for can be just as effective if not more so than telling people what you are looking for.
For instance saying something like "I am NOT into girls who like to be smacked around so if you're into abusive guys please do not contact me. "
In this instance you're actually using what you're not looking for to communicate to girls reading your profile that you're not someone who's abusive & this implies you respect women & would never hurt them.
But you're phrasing it in such a way where you're putting the girl in a position where she has to prove to YOU that she's worthy of your time & not the other way around.
This is very powerful tactic.
TIP 3 Don't Have A Profile Picture
Profiles with pictures get a lot more searches than profiles without pictures but I've found that if you're the one contacting women & let's face it very few women send out emails on these sites it doesn't matter if you don't have a picture up.
You can also make this advantageous for yourself. Tell the target girl that this lunatic woman who you went out once with has been stalking you on multiple sites. However if she contacts you back you promise you will send her a picture. It works every time as far as generating a response
The key here is to let their imagination fill in the gaps of what you look like & have the words in your profile be what attracts them to you as opposed to your picture.
This is great technique for guys who maybe aren't all that attractive or are insecure about their looks.
TIP 4 Sign Up For Multiple Dating Sites
Just like you wouldn't just hang out in one bar or club to meet girls you don't want to hang out on just one website to meet girls either. It's always best to belong to multiple dating websites if you can because it increases the number of women you can meet
Here are some of the sites I like to use to meet women on the
internet. . .
MySpace Match. com eHarmony Plenty Of Fish Yahoo Personals OKCupid. com J Date Craig's List
Some of these sites are free some you have to pay for but all of them will get you results
So don't just limit yourself to one dating site. Go for two or three if you can.
TIP 5 Write Funny Emails
Humor is the most attractive thing you can do online. Writing emails that aren't the same old "hey what's up " or boring emails like "I noticed you liked blah blah blah in your profile I like blah blah blah too," are very powerful.
And the easiest way to do that is to write emails that are light hearted & funny.
Sending an email that says something like "Hey just wondering how many guys with half naked pictures of themselves have contacted you today. I'm taking a survey. Don't ask. " can get a girl to respond to you instantly.
TIP 6 Get The Girls On The Phone Quickly
Don't spend too much time emailing back & forth. People are very different over email than they are on the phone. By the third email you should be asking for her number.
Once you have the number call her up & talk to her. This is where you'll find out if there's some chemistry there & if there is you can go ahead & set up a time to meet.
A huge mistake many guys make is to wait far too long to speak with a girl on the phone. Avoid this. If she's attractive she'll have a lot of attention & will look elsewhere if you hesitate.
Work fast & you'll see some good results.
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